There are many challenges associated with relationship especially to young women who wishes to go into relationship. In this post, Pastor Mark Miracle took his time to highlight 15 relationship tips for single women.
#1 Don’t think so much! When you’re single, it’s easy to get caught up in thoughts and wonder why you aren’t finding the right person, when so many of your friends are happily dating or married.
But don’t let your frustrations get to you, or you may start feeling reckless in love.
Rely on your intuition when you meet a new guy, but don’t be too judgmental or picky from the very first moment you meet him. Be open minded, and most importantly, stop overanalyzing every single thing. Nothing works better than taking it easy for the first few weeks. [Read: The Lovepanky dating girl code all girls need to know!]
#2 Give him the freedom to feel he is in charge. Don’t be afraid to let him take care of you now and then both in words and care. For a man, nothing makes him feel more like a man than when he believes he’s taking care of you.
3 Don’t compare. Never go looking for your old relationship in a new one, and don’t go looking for your ex’s qualities in your present Relationship. If you constantly try to look for similarities, you’ll end up finding someone who’s exactly like your ex, and that may not really work in your favor.#
4 Don’t be a drama queen. Don’t play mind games with a man. It’ll just annoy him or push him further away. Instead, ask him questions, reveal how you feel and stop expecting a guy to read your mind all the time.
#5 If it’s not working, leave it! Some things are worth fighting for, but a new relationship? Well, it’s just not worth the effort. Don’t get into a relationship with second thoughts, and don’t hold on to relationships that you know has to end eventually because you don’t see a happy future in it
#6 Never underestimate the freedom of being single. Don’t believe you’re flawed or negatively different if you don’t have a partner. Enjoy your life and you’ll see that the world can be full of experiences and unexplored possibilities,
#7 Be positive. As long as you’re looking in the right direction, you’re bound to see the right person in the horizon soon enough. Don’t be hasty, and at the same time, don’t feel let down because you aren’t in courtship right now. Be happy and live your own life on your own terms.
#8 Be stress free. Guys can instinctively recognize a girl who is stress-free. Evolution has trained a man’s mind to subconsciously recognize happy women, and it’s also manipulated their mind to find stress-free women more attractive.
#9 Open yourself to the world. Enjoy the little things. You only have a few hours of today before it turns into yesterday. In your pursuit of finding the right man, don’t forget that you’re losing precious time pining over what you don’t have yet.
#10 Expect a few pitfalls. Well, let’s face it. Life isn’t always perfect, and most of us have to kiss a few frogs before meeting the perfect lover. Now, not every date you go to may end in a fairytale romantic marriage. Be realistic, but optimistic at the same time be open minded.
#11 Be the best you can be 24/7. Do you have any insecurities about yourself? Try to fix them, instead of hiding them under a fake veil of confidence. Look your best, dress your best, and feel your best. You never know when you may bump into your dream man.
#12 Don’t fake your personality. You are who you are, so don’t hide your true self from the man you meet. If there’s something you don’t like about yourself, work on it and better yourself, so you can feel flawless from the inside out.
#13 Weed out the negatives. What makes you feel unconfident or insecure? Don’t hide yourself because you feel you aren’t good enough for the world. Being beautiful is nothing but a state of mind!
#14 Your Mr. Perfect. Don’t build a checklist and shut the door to everyone other than the ones that fit your idea of a perfect man. Remember, you’re looking for someone to live with for the rest of your life, and sometimes, it takes more than a few checks and crosses to really understand the ingredients of a perfect life, for the present and the future.
#15 Don’t rush in. When you meet a man who seems perfect, you can’t help but throw yourself helplessly into his arms, but avoid falling head over heels too soon. If a man finds it too easy to win your heart, he may lose interest in you just as easily. You don’t have to always play hard to get, as long as you are still in control of your own heart until both of you can get to know each other better.
Written by Mark Miracle.
